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Dear Dr. and Mrs. ... (husband's surname)
Husband is a Judge David Diaz and wife is a Dr. Linda Diaz
Does this apply to Senator and Mrs. John Doe for example?
How about including the possibility that the wife is the one with the special title? Sorry, but old etiquette books and even some newer ones act as if it's impossible that the wife is the one is the doctorate. It's annoying and sexist